Hi.....
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So, today's post is going to be about friendship. I know some people that just never ever made any friends, and rarely, if they did, they would stick with one classmate and hang out with him/her ALL of the time. I also know people who have always had a friendly soul and made new amazing friends at any opportunity. Those given in the second example are the ones who were valued by their friends and themselves- they were (and still are) content and happy about their social interactions with their friends. I used a weird little complicated phrase there :) So, I know quite a bit about this whole friendship issue as this was exactly what happened to me and one of my friends. I remember that in Primary school I had one friend with which I stuck with throughout the whole of junior school, around three or four years. I never wanted to make other friendships, and when I tried, nothing really went my way so I just came back to my old friend group. I also remember that in Year 6, I viewed things a bit differently. I started to realise that it was weird that all my other classmates had big groups of friends, and I didn't. I'm not saying that this is wrong, if you are that sort of person, but I just felt that I wanted to make friends with so much more people. It's way better to have a few best friends for life rather that twenty mates that talk about you behind your back or something similar. But I didn't even have these few, I felt I needed to be more open to others and to make new bonds. And so I did. I realised that life can be so much fun if you just have more companions !!!!!
When I had reached the end of Year 6, I had so so many new people in my friendship group, but now I had to leave at least half of them, as I was leaving to go to Secondary school. I wish I had made friends way earlier than year 6, but from this lesson I learnt to be more confident, and I'm telling you to not do the same as me ❤❤❤
Thanks so so much for reading this !!!!
Guys, seeing how many of you actually read this blog really and truly makes my day, especially when I feel down :) I am so happy with starting this blog and I have made a great start, or so I hope..... I love you all my wonderful Dreamers!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Keep checking for new posts,
Love,
Amber ❤
P.S. Sorry that I kept saying "friends", I found it quite boring myself, but that's what this post was about, so yeah...... Love you !!! ❤ :D
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