Trust

I never lied to you on this blog. And I never will. Just wanted you to know that :)


So, by saying that, I trust you and hopefully it's the other way back too. This post is inspired from school, as we did the trust test and I realised how many people actually didn't trust each other. Why? Because now we've got so many lies, so many fake people around us trying to gain popularity, that we've forgotten what true friends are. So know what I want to say is that take a minute in your life and realise and find those friends who actually care about you, love you and will always be there for you.


People in my class had to do the trust test with each other, including me, and some were very apprehensive, even if it was the teacher. Some were really laid back and that just shows their chilled back nature and motive for life. You won't ever get far in life if you don't trust- "If you wouldn't trust, you couldn't go up the stairs, because someone built the landing- someone provided you the safety of a home" as one of my friends said.


All I want to stress is that life will be much more enjoyable if you learn to trust- in others and also in yourself.

Have you ever been scared of saying the truth to your friends? Have you ever doubted in them to tell a secret? It's a hard question to answer,  and I know that :)


You'll always feel most comfortable talking about your feelings to yourself- as always. Don't worry about anything- it took me 3 years to trust my best friend and even now when I see her and I know and she knows that we hate each other I never doubt her and always tell her a secret. Trust, once gained, cannot be taken away. Ever.


Love how you would and always think about others; gain trust so that a secret won't be a secret and we learn to appreciate ourselves and share words with our friends. Love you so much.


Amber ❤

Words.

How words can hurt. How they can make you feel bad or good, how you can't get them back. How words are weapons- and strength. How words are a weakness- and they can show a feeling too. Words are the letters tailing off your tongue in seconds... but with no thought.


I never knew that I could make a person smile- but I never knew someone could make my cry. O didn't think about her decisions... So she lost a very good friend. I would still be very close to her in the present time, but she chose what she wanted. She chose the bad way of expressing what she thought.


But you also have to show feelings- words are not all and everything. You have to show too. If you say you won't, show it. If you really say to someone these three words: I love you. Make sure it's a person you really meant to say it to- saying I love you to people who you fancy does not express your real feelings if it's only a on-off crush. Words do sometimes lose meaning if said too often. Sorry- say sorry when you mean it: not when people are just so angry with you and you think you did nothing wrong so you just say sorry to settle the friendship between you. Be honest: solve the problem. And don't lie- it won't get you anywhere, and, overtime, people won't believe anything you say. Easy? Hard. I know.
So; love, laugh, live, use words wisely and use them to make a change.


Love,
Amber ❤