Trust

I never lied to you on this blog. And I never will. Just wanted you to know that :)


So, by saying that, I trust you and hopefully it's the other way back too. This post is inspired from school, as we did the trust test and I realised how many people actually didn't trust each other. Why? Because now we've got so many lies, so many fake people around us trying to gain popularity, that we've forgotten what true friends are. So know what I want to say is that take a minute in your life and realise and find those friends who actually care about you, love you and will always be there for you.


People in my class had to do the trust test with each other, including me, and some were very apprehensive, even if it was the teacher. Some were really laid back and that just shows their chilled back nature and motive for life. You won't ever get far in life if you don't trust- "If you wouldn't trust, you couldn't go up the stairs, because someone built the landing- someone provided you the safety of a home" as one of my friends said.


All I want to stress is that life will be much more enjoyable if you learn to trust- in others and also in yourself.

Have you ever been scared of saying the truth to your friends? Have you ever doubted in them to tell a secret? It's a hard question to answer,  and I know that :)


You'll always feel most comfortable talking about your feelings to yourself- as always. Don't worry about anything- it took me 3 years to trust my best friend and even now when I see her and I know and she knows that we hate each other I never doubt her and always tell her a secret. Trust, once gained, cannot be taken away. Ever.


Love how you would and always think about others; gain trust so that a secret won't be a secret and we learn to appreciate ourselves and share words with our friends. Love you so much.


Amber ❤

Words.

How words can hurt. How they can make you feel bad or good, how you can't get them back. How words are weapons- and strength. How words are a weakness- and they can show a feeling too. Words are the letters tailing off your tongue in seconds... but with no thought.


I never knew that I could make a person smile- but I never knew someone could make my cry. O didn't think about her decisions... So she lost a very good friend. I would still be very close to her in the present time, but she chose what she wanted. She chose the bad way of expressing what she thought.


But you also have to show feelings- words are not all and everything. You have to show too. If you say you won't, show it. If you really say to someone these three words: I love you. Make sure it's a person you really meant to say it to- saying I love you to people who you fancy does not express your real feelings if it's only a on-off crush. Words do sometimes lose meaning if said too often. Sorry- say sorry when you mean it: not when people are just so angry with you and you think you did nothing wrong so you just say sorry to settle the friendship between you. Be honest: solve the problem. And don't lie- it won't get you anywhere, and, overtime, people won't believe anything you say. Easy? Hard. I know.
So; love, laugh, live, use words wisely and use them to make a change.


Love,
Amber ❤

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Life

Life is like a cake mix- all things mixed into one. You get all the things you need in life, all the things you want and everything you hate all in one, but you have to take the time to do the recipe correctly, even when it's not that easy to do. It's never as easy as it seems, but at the end, you have a great product, a wonderful life you've worked for.




Life is not a destination to make ambitions to- it's a journey. You never know what path to take, but that is what it's all about- trying new things, laughing, crying, pouring sweat and blood into your work so in the future when you look back on your journey so far you think- "What a great start."




Life is not sold on a fun fair- life is precious and when you may think that you are one of millions you are the only you that can ever exist. No other you can ever live on this planet and be the same person as you. This can't happen twice.




And that's why I've started this blog. I know that it may not be as great and big and fantastic as a blog by Zoella, or one by Tanya Burr or Niomi Smart, but it's mine. It's a blog no-one can ever recreate using their own thoughts and feelings. And that's why life is magical.




So remember, when you feel down and all you feel like doing is cry; cry. Just remember that life is beautiful and worth living.




Remember that each moment is special- you can't rewind and replay it like a CD. So go on, don't be scared to get on that ride, don't worry if you're skirt goes up while you do a flip with your old school friends. Don't be afraid to try what you haven't done yet- you may not like it, but a memory stays and you've tried something new- be brave and do the unknown and explore to make your life your dream come true.


I love you.


Amber ❤


P.S. Do you want a part two? :)